When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change
Dr Wayne Dyer
When our lives are going well, when we are excited and enthused, all well and good. We all love those times.
But life is life and that means that there will be plenty of times that you may feel lost or unfulfilled. You will have periods of difficulty, feeling as if you are walking through jam. At some point, your relationships will be called into question, your work and career will come to a crossroad, or your home or financial security may strike worry and anxiety within.
And it’s at these times that working with a coach can change your perception of your situation, shift your mindset and enable you to re-evaluate your beliefs.
Why is that important?
Because your perceptions and your beliefs control your internal dialogue. It’s the quality of your internal dialogue, that never ending inner voice, that determines the quality of your life. What you may not be aware of is that your beliefs are held and managed in your subconscious mind, and we operate from our subconscious mind about 95% of the time. As it’s subconscious, you’re most likely not even aware of what those beliefs are.
Being coached takes commitment and focus. It’s with that focus of mind and the tools and practical philosphy that we will use as part of our work together, that you will be amazed that no matter what the nature of events that life brings, you will master your feelings and thinking patterns about them. This is what I believe resilience is and it leads to an appreciation of life’s journey, whatever your situation may be.
Even the most seemingly unpleasant situations - if you become aligned with it, something good will emerge from that.
I’m also known as “The Financial Therapist”, given my experience of starting and operating businesses, and my experience within the worlds largest media companies. With a thorough knowledge of managing and understanding money, I will decode the relationship you have with your own money so that you can be fulfilled in this area of your life.
A feeling of being stuck, irritated or frustrated with where you are in life, and have a desire to change
Unsure what it is that you want to do but feel that there is something that’s more “you” out there
You know what you want to do but don’t know how to get there, or fear the path
Shift your mindset to see how you can get the most out of your current role at work, go further or change altogether and be enriched by the experience
Building your confidence, self-esteem and your self-worth working from an internal place rather than reliant on others / external conditions
Reduce negative thoughts and self-talk. Use that energy for creative and productive purposes rather than circular, low energy, destructive thinking
Enable you to find your own sense of clarity, purpose and inner peace
Overcoming feelings of being trapped or controlled by money in your life path
Help you manage your finances so that they are no longer a worry, providing you with the budgeting tools that you need to do this
Build your confidence in handling and managing your money by understanding your relationship with money and reprogramming your subconscious thoughts on this to get what you want
Take the step to leave your salaried employment and live “independently”
Help you meet short/mid/long term financial goals and desires by planning for it and simplifying the financial jungle for you
For your business: benefit from 20 years of experience in building and operating successful businesses. Ensure you have the optimum planning, strategy and financial management for your business to grow and do what you want it to
We learn and develop through change and challenge but a lot of the time we fear change and challenge because of our overactive survival emotions – of which fear is the root of all low emotions. We also learn and develop through our relationships but a lot of time we don’t recognise their value. For example, many people talk about separation and divorce as a failed relationship.
No relationship or event is a failure. It never can be, as it’s about the interrelatedness of ourselves. It’s through the difficult relationships or events that we can access deep wisdom, if we open ourselves up to our human experience. And through that opening up we can transmute feelings of fear to opportunity, finally overcoming our unhelpful conditioning. So we don’t run away from fear or life, but we go forward into it - and that’s when the flow begins.
Have a free 15 minute discovery call to discuss your needs. We can then decide whether to work together further.
Always say ‘yes’ to the present moment… Surrender to what is. Say ‘yes’ to life - and see how life starts suddenly to start working for you rather than against you.